Friday, December 10, 2010

5 Tips for Teaching Your Pup How to Spend Time Alone

by Andrea Arden, reprinted from

I am convinced that sweet puppy breath is nature's form of Love Potion No. 9. Once exposed, you become intoxicated and powerless to do anything but reschedule your life so that you can spend as much time with your new puppy as possible. Days pass and you feel your mood and spirit lighten as you witness them romping about in their inquisitive, enthusiastic, and not yet fully coordinated manner.

These brief bursts of entertaining energy are balanced with hours spent watching the peaceful, deep slumber that is unique to a baby animal. Your hazy, love fog begins to clear when you realize you must head to work, school, or the grocery store. But, the thought of leaving your new little puppy at home by him or herself can be enough to send even the most rational pet parent into guilt overload. This is exacerbated once you head out the door and hear the whimpers, whines, howls and barks of a pup that suddenly realizes they have been left alone. What ensues is nothing less than mutual canine and human separation anxiety.

Puppies are programmed to seek out social connections for safety and comfort. Spending time alone is something that is inherently foreign to them and that they are unlikely to have experienced in early puppyhood while they are with their mother and littermates. However, as spending time alone will be a consistent requirement for almost all pet dogs, helping a young pup to develop the skill to self pacify and spend time calmly and quietly without their family nearby is a vital part of early puppy education. Doing so will take the stress out of separation for you and your dog. However, be mindful that helping your puppy learn this skill should be balanced with a well-planned and implemented socialization program so that they also learn to enjoy the company of a wide range of people.

In most ways, the dog's preference for sociability works in our favor. After all, they have been our devoted companions for years and will work by our side, alert us to intruders and otherwise be all one could hope for in an animal companion. However, this propensity for sociability also means that we must allow for a gradual adjustment to learning to spend time alone. Furthermore, each dog is an individual and deserves to be provided with all that it takes for them to learn in as stress free a manner as possible that is appropriate for their particular temperament and experience. So, be sure to proceed with the following tips at a rate that is appropriate for your pup.

1. Make the most of your pup's need for plenty of rest.
As wonderful as it is to cuddle with your sleeping pup, try to use vital nap times as opportunities for your dog to be separate from you when it is likely easiest for them. Resting in a suitably sized crate is usually the best option as it not only provides a safe resting spot, but when used properly will also be a useful housetraining tool. Start by placing your pup in his or her crate just after elimination in an appropriate spot and at times when they seem most in need of a nap. The crate should be nearby you or other family members. But, over the course of a couple of weeks you should be able to gradually move it farther away. When your pup wakes up, be sure to carry them immediately to their potty spot.

2. Use puzzle and chew toys to keep your puppy happily occupied when not engaged in play with you.
Dogs, especially puppies who are teething, love to chew. Have a selection of five to ten chew toys on hand for your pup to play with. The three general varieties are: toys which are hollow in the middle and dispense your pups dry or wet food (such as Busy Buddy Twist n' Treats, Kongs, and Activity Balls), toys which are hollow in the middle and can be stuffed with soft food which does not drop out when pushed about, but that your dog can work to get (such as sterilized white bones with a small opening at each end), chew toys which are digestible (such as Flossies and Bully Sticks). Providing your dog with these engaging chew options will keep them happily occupied when you aren't engaged with them.

For three more tips to help your pup become the happy, well-adjusted adult dog you know he can be, even when he's home alone, see Andrea's full article here.